Do You Know Why Your Customers Are Buying from You

Above All, People Buy from People They Like And Trust

“Humanity is in the highest degree irrational so that there is no prospect of influencing it by reasonable arguments.”

from Sigmund Freud

If you are a B2B salesperson, do you know why your customers are buying from you?

• Is it the value your product delivers?
• Is it the brand you represent?
• Is it the price/promotion/discount you just offered them?
• Is it the strong online presence your company has?
• Is it because they like and trust you?

It is likely a combination of all those factors, and others, with one or two being dominant.

It is interesting, though, to hear and read the opinions of those in B2B sales. Some scientific, some self-serving, …

1. Amy Rees Anderson: “ People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel.”

2. CJ Ng: “ It is often said that customers buy from people they like. While we don’t usually buy from people we dislike, there is one more dimension to this old saying. Customers buy from people they trust.”

3. Shonal Narayan: “ People do business with people they know, like, and trust, especially in the business world. They don’t just want to hand their money to some faceless corporation or sign a contract with someone they just met. … A lot of B2B purchasing decisions have more to do with the relationships the buyers have with the salespeople, and less to do with the product or service.”

4. During a conversation with a Senior Account Executive, she stated that her customers are not buying because of the great product she sells, but because they like her.

5. The Sales Guy sharply contradicts this notion and — his profanity ignored — makes a valid argument: “… people buy from people they like, … But what this phrase doesn’t say is people buy from people they don’t like and they DON’T buy from people they like. The world is not zero sum. Just because someone likes you doesn’t mean they are gonna buy from you AND just because someone doesn’t like you, doesn’t mean they won’t buy from you. When it comes to sales, buyers are not in the friend business. They have enough friends. Buyers are in the improvement, growth, and opportunity business. Buyers need solutions that increase their ability to exceed their goals and crush it. Therefore, what buyers care more about than liking you is how much value can you and your product or service bring? Value trumps likability EVERY time — be valuable, not liked.”

6. Mark Jewell: “ Successful selling is a creator of relationships; relationships aren’t a creator of successful selling. So, what is a relationship? Many salespeople think that a relationship is a friendship. They think they need to give their clients sports tickets or take them fishing. It’s nice to make friends; however, that’s not going to determine whether you’re going to get the sale.

People don’t necessarily buy from friends — they buy from people they trust to deliver. Especially if risk and hassle are on the table and they need to make sure that the person they just endorsed for their project is not going to let them down or get them fired or cost them political capital in their organization. So how do you build a relationship? By producing results, acting professionally, and demonstrating your value from the get-go. A friendship may form as a result of the sale, but it’s your reliability and performance in the sales setting that are going to win you the next sale.”

7. Flume provides three reasons for their thought that there is too much at stake for today’s B2B buyers to buy from you just because they like you.

It makes sense that if your product or service does not provide ROI, improvement, or growth, you will have a hard time selling it. I believe, though, there is more to it:

• Delivering an ROI or an improvement is an assumed given for any product (no one in B2B buys nice-to-haves). It is not an actual buying reason.
• Very few products are standouts, most are competing with very similar others, and sales teams work hard to communicate a UVP that often is only inches away from the competitor.
• I have seen my fair share of irrational decisions made in B2B buying, where despite demonstrating ROI, improvement, and growth, the decision went the other way.

And this is precisely where trust, familiarity, and likability come in … and can make the difference. And ultimately, it is the combination of value and likability that makes the client buy.

And since we are in a time where more and more sales are moving online, and an ever-increasing share of the sales process happens virtually: the same holds true online. While your website can share all the rational reasons for why your product is the best, no one will buy unless they feel they get to know you, have a likable online experience and develop the trust that the product or services delivered actually meet the description provided.

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Amy Rees Anderson — People Do Business With People They Like

CJ Ng — Customers Don’t Buy From People They Like, They Buy From Those They Trust

Shonal Narayan — People Do Business With People They Know, Like, And Trust

The Sales Guy — People Buy From People They Like Is a Myth

Mark Jewell — People Buy from People They Trust

Flume — Why people DON’T buy from people they like

Drew McLellan — They’ll buy when they trust

Photo by Anne Gosewehr

Originally published at https://www.vendux.org on January 18, 2022.